… and I cater to fetishes and kinks. My sessions are usually guided by my submissive’s desires. Before seeing me, I prefer that subs give me a detailed account of what they enjoy and do not enjoy. My ultimate satisfaction is the moan that escapes your throat when I've led you into rapture.

Sadism

As a domme, I enjoy the giving of pleasure through pain. BDSM can be a fantastic release and I want to facilitate that. I find that BDSM can be akin to moving life energy or “qi”, as its referred to in Traditional Chinese Medicine. Moving stagnant energy helps us stay grounded and grow, mentally. It’s an honor when someone asks me to, essentially, help in that movement of energy.

Also, it can be really fun, depending on the scene. I enjoy finding fun and creative ways of making my submissive suffer. Cries, wails, groans, grunts are all lovely sounds for me to hear. However, my sessions guided by submissive’s desires so the focus is on their needs in that particular session.

More About Me in FAQ Form…

1. Do you work out of a dungeon? No. I usually rent/book an incall for my sessions and schlep any needed equipment with me.

2. What are your hard limits? Some types of play can be a bit challenging. For those, I usually adjust my rate. See my list of services and if something you’re into isn’t listed, just ask me.

3. Which BDSM safety framework do you follow? read about it in my blog post here.

4. Do you use safe words? Safe words are fine but traffic light signals are a little more useful (red for “stop”; yellow for “slow down” or “you’re getting close to my limit”; and green for “keep going!”). However, it’s still important that my sub first feels confident and comfortable with even using these signals. There is no shame in telling me to change the tempo. Communication is paramount especially when we are just getting to know one another.

5. Can you beat me until I pass out? No.

6. Can you beat me until I cry and drool? Certainly.

7. Since you’re a dominatrix, does that mean you hate men? No. Everyone is deserving of my respect and affection until the moment they prove otherwise.

8. Do you enjoy role play? Yes. I am very much looking forward to playing out some unique and interesting scenarios. I’m a pretty creative person. Click here for a snippet of my domination style.

9. What kind of aftercare do you engage in? It depends on my bottom. If they require no aftercare at all, I’m okay with just discussing the scene at the end. However, I am a sweet person so I enjoy giving hugs, long embraces, and letting my submissive cry if they need to.

10. What is your favorite color? Black. And not because I have a dark soul. I’m actually pretty friendly, upbeat, and sometimes, even perky and silly outside of domme sessions. The colors one would probably associate with me outside the context of being a femdom are sunshine yellow or bubble gum pink. However, I love black because its a beautiful and striking color.